大學生英語辯論賽話題集錦(MP3+中英字幕) 第33場:婚前性格檢測是否有助於彼此瞭解

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正方辯詞：

Marriage compatibility tests can help the couple understand each other better.

婚前性格檢測可以幫助男女方更好地瞭解彼此。

The right choice of a life and romantic partner has always been of primary importance for hurnan beings. Timely knowledge of the type of future relationships of the couple will help avoid mistakes.

對於我們來講，正確地選擇生活和伴侶一直是首要任務。及時瞭解未來雙方婚姻關係的特點將會幫助我們避免犯錯。

The quality of the relationships in a given couple is predetermined by each partner's personal characteristics, and by his/her capability to develop optional behavior in the couple. Each one has a number of personal traits which substantially affect his/ her behavior in the couple. Besides, some other factors such as, educational level, religiosity, financial status, origin, etc. are supposed to exert influence upon the couple relationships.

情侶在婚後關係如何，可以通過雙方的性格以及戀愛期間最佳行爲表現的能力預測出來。每個人都有自己的個性特點，而這些性格會極大地影響個人在戀愛中的行爲表現。另外，其他一些因素，如教育程度，宗教信仰，經濟狀況及出身背景等等，都會對情侶婚後關係產生一定的影響。

The compatibility tests enable the couple to better understand each other before marriage so as to adapt to the partner to enhance the relationship. It is through the efforts from both parties that they achieve a happy family.

婚前性格檢查能讓情侶們更好的瞭解彼此，以適應對方，增進婚後感情。經過雙方的共同努力，相信他們能夠組建一個幸福美滿的家庭。

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反方辯詞：

Marriage is not a gamble.

婚姻不是賭博。

There is no denying that compatible personalities of the couple are necessary for a happy family. Although we can't change basic personality, we can improve behavior. We will turn out more compatible with our mates through learning to adapt to each other.

不可否認，雙方個性的和諧是婚後幸福必不可少的條件。雖然本性難改，但我們可以改善自己的行爲態度。通過努力彼此適應後，雙方將會更加和睦。

When you love someone, the differences don't matter as much. Compatibility is not effective enough to bond you two together for a lifetime. As people get older, their preferences change and their compatibility might change as well. If there is true love involved, they wil understand those differences and concentrate on the things they enjoy doing together.

當你愛上某人的時候，你並不會在意彼此的差異。因此，性格合與不合對於決定共度一生的情侶來說並不會產生太大的影響。隨着年齡的增長，人們的喜好會有所改變，從而情侶間的和諧程度也隨之變化。如果是真心相愛，夫妻之間會理解彼此的不同並專注於兩人共同的喜好上。

No amount of tests can save a marriage, and the onus lies on the two individuals to the marriage work. It is all about your beliefs in the marriage system.

測試並不能說明什麼，只有雙方的責任感才能成就段婚姻。如何做完全取決於個人對於婚姻制度的看法。