測試一下你在戀愛中的表現有多好大綱
It turns out that relationship satisfaction doesn't have much to do with how funny or romantic you are…
事實證明關係滿意度與你有多幽默或浪漫沒有多大關係……There is one personality trait that consistently predicts relationship satisfaction, and it can be measured with a few simple questions. On a scale of 1 (not at all) to 5 (very much), to what extent do you…
有一種人格特質可以持續衡量關係滿意度,並且可以通過一些簡單的問題來進行衡量。從範圍1（一點也不）到5（非常），你屬於哪種程度……a)pay attention to detail?
a)注意細節？
b)get chores done straightaway?
b)有家務活立刻做完？c)like order?
c)喜歡井井有條？d)follow a schedule?
d)做事有計劃？e)ensure that you are always well-prepared?
e)確保你總是準備充分？
The personality trait that most reliably predicts relationship satisfaction is not a wicked sense of humour or a fondness for grand romantic gestures, but conscientiousness. If you scored 21-25 you are very conscientious, 16-20 somewhat conscientious, and 15 or less (or you didn't finish the test) not particularly conscientious.
最可靠的衡量感情滿意度的人格特徵不是一種精怪的幽默感或對極其浪漫姿態的鐘愛，而是責任心。如果你得分是21-25，那麼你很有責任心。16-20分和15或更少(或您沒有完成測試)，那麼你不是很有責任心。This might seem surprising, as we can think of conscientious people as rather unromantic or even boring. But other traits, such as extraversion and enjoying new things, can be either good or bad depending on your partner and the stage of your relationship. It seems that ultimately most of us want a partner who will keep their promises, do their share of the household chores, remember birthdays and anniversaries, not cheat on us and forgive us if we cheat on them – all characteristics of conscientious people, and predictors of relationship satisfaction. As if that's not enough, conscientious people – across all levels of education and socioeconomic status – also live longer. Let's raise a (sensibly sized) glass to boring people.
這似乎很奇怪,因爲我們會認爲有責任心的人一般是平淡無奇甚至無聊。但其他特徵,如外向和享受新事物,可以是好是壞，要取決於你和伴侶戀愛關係的進展階段。看來，最終我們大部分人希望與信守承諾的人結爲伴侶，和他們一起做家務，記住彼此的生日和紀念日，不欺騙我們，如果我們欺騙他們，他們也會原諒我們 – 這些都是有責任心的人的特徵，也是關係滿意度衡量標準。好像這還不夠,有責任心的人-在所有層次的教育和社會經濟地位中-也更長壽。讓我們來戴上（理智的）眼鏡來看那些無聊的人吧。
