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經典美文:做一個樂觀者

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不管是消極還是積極的想法,都是一種本身會得以實現的預言。如果人們感覺毫無希望,那麼他們就不會花費力氣去獲得成功所需要的技能。下面是本站小編爲大家帶來英語經典美文:做一個樂觀者,希望大家喜歡!

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If you change your mind - from pessimism tooptimism - you can change your you see theglass as half-full rather than half empty?Do you keepyour eye upon the doughnut, ot upon the hole?Suddenly these cliches are scientific questions, asresearchers scrutinize the power of arch is proving that optimism can helpyou to be happier, healthier and imism leads, by contrast, tohopelessness, sickness and failure, and is linked todepression,loneliness and painful shyness. If we could teach people to think more positively,it wouldbe like inoculating them against these mental ills.

Your habits count but the belief that you can succeed affects whether or not you part, that’sbecause optimists and pessimists deal with the same challenges and disappointments in verydifferent things go wrong the pessimist tends to blame himself.“I’m not good atthis.”“I always fail.”He would say. But the optimist looks for tive or positive, it wasa self-fulfilling people feel hopeless they don’t bother to acquire the skills they need tosucceed.

A sense of control is the litmus test for success. The optimist feels in control of his own ingsare going badly, he acts quickly, looking for solutions, forming a new plan of action,andreaching out foradvice. The pessimist feels like fate’s plaything and moves doesn’t seekadvice, since he assumes nothing can be studies suggest that the pessimist’s feeling ofhelplessness undermines the body’s natural defenses,the immune system. Research has found thatthe pessimist doesn’t take good care of ing passive and unable to dodge life’s blows,he expects ill health and other misfortunes,no matter what he does. He munches on junk food,avoids exercise, ignores the doctor, has another drink.

Most people are a mix of optimism and pessimism, but are inclined in one direction or the isa pattern of thinking learned at our mothers’ grows out of thousands of cautions orencouragements, negative statements or positive many “don’t” and warnings ofdanger can make a child feel incompetent, fearful and pessimistic. Pessimism is a hard habit tobreak - but it can be done.

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如果你能將悲觀情緒轉化爲樂觀情緒,那麼你將改變自己的命運。你看到的是杯子中的半杯水,還是空着的另一半?你的眼睛盯着的是炸麪包圈,還是它當中的圓洞?當研究者們詳細檢 測積極思維的作用時,突然之間這些陳詞濫調都成爲了科學問題。研究證實,樂觀能夠讓你更加快樂、更加健康、更加成功。相反,悲觀則會導致無望、疾病以及挫敗;其與消沉、孤獨和使人 痛苦的靦腆不無關係。假如我們能夠教導人們更加積極地去思考,那就會像給他們注射預防這些心理疾病的疫苗。

你的諸多習慣固然重要,但是你能夠成功的信念影響着你是否真的會成功。在某種程度上講,這是由於樂觀主義者和悲 觀主義者以迥異的方式對待相同的挑戰與失望。當出了問題之後,悲觀主義者往往自我責備。他會說我不揸長做這種事”,“我總是失敗”。但是樂觀主義者則尋找疏漏之處。不管是消極還是積極的想法,都是一種本身會得以實現的預言。如果人們感覺毫無希望,那麼他們就不會花費力氣去獲得成功所需要的技能。

有無攀控感是成功的試金石。樂觀主義者感覺到能夠攀握自己的命運。如果亊出不利,他立即作出反應,尋求解決辦法,制定新的行動計劃,而且主動去請教他人。悲觀主義者則感覺到自己只能任憑命運擺佈,行動起來拖拖拉拉。既然認爲無計可施,他便不去尋求他人的意見。許多研究顯示,悲觀主義者的無助感會損害人體的自然防禦體系,即免疫系統。研究發現悲觀主義者不會很好地照顧自己。這種人消極被動,不會避開生活中的打擊,不管做什麼都會擔心身體不好或者其他災禍降臨。他吞吃着垃圾食品(不利子健康且營養價值低的食品),逃避體 育鍛鍊,忽視醫生的勸告,總是要再貪一杯。

在大多數人身上,樂觀主義和悲觀主義兼而有之,但總是更加傾向於其中之一。這是在母親膝下之時就已經形成的思維模式。它源自千萬次瞀告或者鼓勵,積極的或者消極的話語。過多的"不許"和危險警告會讓一個孩子感到無能、膽怯——以至於悲觀。悲觀是一種很難克服的習慣一但是其並非不能夠克服。

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